Are you just a couple who indulges in superficial pleasures together?
You live together every day, eating together, shopping together, traveling together, drinking together, playing games together. But under the same roof, you’ve become used to doing your own things separately. It’s been so long since you last had a heartfelt conversation. Sleeping together feels like just a routine connection, and when you argue, you make up with a gift. When one of you is angry, the other just apologizes. Looking back, you realize there are few meaningful memories left. The excitement of planning new adventures is gone, and during meals, you both are engrossed in your phones, forgetting what you’re even eating. The romance has died, the love has faded, leaving only habit.
Many admire your beauty and body, and plenty praise your education and talents, but few take the time to truly communicate with you. It’s like a crush: love at first sight, but without a connection of souls. You fall for someone with little understanding, you can see the passion in their eyes, but you can’t reveal your brokenness. You don’t know if this person truly understands you, accepts you, not just sympathizes or comforts you.
You long for a patient conversation, but everyone wants to sleep together first. Many relationships start with desire and lies disguised as love. Problems remain on the surface, both parties pretending not to notice. If it doesn’t work out, breaking up becomes the last resort. Or you hold on to the hope that they’ll change, but without discussion and communication, only expectation remains. When repeated disappointments follow, you give up. If you can’t break the bond, you rely on the habit of being together.
So this time, have a real conversation. Don’t wait until the next one.
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